Laws of The Nine Days (Starting the first day of Av)

  1. We do not eat meat or drink wine. However, on Shabbat we are permitted to do so. “Meat” includes fowl and food cooked with meat or meat fat or gravy. You may eat food cooked in a meat vessel without meat ingredients.
  2. You are permitted to use wine for havdallah on Saturday night. Some give the wine to a small child, while others use beer.
  3. We refrain from laundering. However, you may launder children¹s clothing that constantly soils with dirt and the like. Additionally, you may give clothing to a non-Jewish cleaner before the first of Av even if it will be cleaned afterwards.
  4. We refrain from wearing freshly laundered clothing. If you wear your clothing for a short time before the first of Av, they can then be worn during The Nine Days. Undergarments, socks, and pajamas, which are worn directly on the body, may be changed where irritation and discomfort will develop. Also, we may not purchase or make any new garments. Knitting and needlecraft are prohibited, but you may repair or patch torn garments. If you do not have any non-leather shoes, and forgot to buy sneakers for Tisha B’Av, you may do so.
  5. We also refrain from changing bed linen and using fresh tablecloths and towels.
  6. On Shabbat you may wear freshly cleaned clothing or use fresh towels and tablecloths, but you may not change bed linens.
  7. You may not wear any new garments even on Shabbat. You may not wear Shabbat garments on weekdays during The Nine Days.
  8. You may not bathe for pleasure. You may not use hot or warm water for cleaning yourself unless the dirt or perspiration will not come off otherwise. You may add hot water to cold water in order to take out the chill.
  9. For Shabbat, you may bathe with hot water (if you do so every Friday for Shabbat). A woman may go to the mikva during The Nine Days.
  10. Construction is suspended unless it is required for living purposes or to prevent damage. Home decorating is not permitted. If a non-Jew was contracted before the 1st of Av, he may work during The Nine Days. Gardening is suspended.
  11. You may not purchase objects of joy, such as silver for a wedding, if it will be available after Tisha B’Av for the same price.
  12. You may not cut your nails during the week in which Tisha B’Av occurs. However, for Shabbat or as preparation for mikva use, you are permitted to do so.

Previous Topic: From the 17th of Tammuz until the 1st of Av.

Next Topic: Erev Tisha B’Av-the day before Tisha B’Av.

Laws of The Three Weeks (Starting from the 17th of Tammuz)

  1. We do not hold weddings.
  2. We are not permitted to dance, play musical instruments, or listen to music.
  3. We do not shave or get haircuts. An adult may not give a haircut to a child. However, if you will incur financial loss if you do not shave, you are permitted to shave until the week in which Tisha B’Av occurs.
  4. We refrain from reciting the blessing of shehechiyanu. Therefore, we do not purchase or wear new garments or eat a new fruit for the first time. Until the first day of Av, you may purchase and wear new shoes, undergarments, socks, and shirts, since they do not require the blessing of shehechiyanu. On Shabbat, the above is permitted, and shehechiyanu may be recited.

Next topic:The first nine days of the month of Av (referred to as The Nine Days).

The Three Weeks and the Nine Days

The 17th of Tammuz through Tisha B’Av (The 9th day of the Hebrew month of Av) is the period we refer to as “The Three Weeks”. During this time, we mourn the destruction of the Beit Hamikdash (The Holy Temple). On the 17th of Tammuz, the enemy breached the walls of Jerusalem. On Tisha B’Av, both the first and second temples were destroyed. Our mourning begins on the 17th of Tammuz and intensifies as Tisha B’Av approaches.

There are 5 periods of mourning that we go through:

  1. From the 17th of Tammuz until the 1st of Av.
  2. The first nine days of the month of Av (referred to as The Nine Days).
  3. The week in which Tisha B’Av occurs.
  4. Erev Tisha B’Av-the day before Tisha B’Av.
  5. Tisha B’Av day.

Fast of 17 Tammuz Schedule

Seventeenth of Tammuz – Tuesday July 19

  • 04:12 am – Fast begins
  • 06:40 am – Shacharit
  • 07:45 pm – Mincha
  • 08:50 pm – Ma’ariv
  • 09:02 pm – Fast ends

YU Torah Tours Makes a Stop in Malden

by Phillip Vedol and Josh Vogel

Shavuot 5771 at Beth Israel of Malden was very special, indeed!

Six students from Yeshiva University’s Torah Tours came to Congregation Beth Israel Malden for the holiday to give shiurim, or classes in Torah, for men, women, and teens.  After a community evening seudah, or festive meal, the shiurim began. A wide spectrum of topics were covered, including two special interactive discussions for the community’s teenagers. The learning went into the morning, sweetened with regular servings of cheesecake.

Throughout the holiday, the entire shul community was charmed by the friendly and conversational nature of the Torah Tours crew. They took a keen interest in getting to know all of the shul’s congregants, with the community immediately making them feel at home.

We wish to thank and commend Dorit Muskin (who was their coordinator), Esti Reichman, Alexandra Grumet, Zach Weiner, Elliot Friedman, and Josh Jay for enhancing our community’s Shavuot experience on so many levels. We were even fortunate to have the voice of one of YU’s Maccabeats to uplift our services. They were excited to bring back word to their friends of the great incentives the Jewish Community of Malden has to offer, like tuition assistance (link), an eruv, and Mikvah under construction (link). They also agreed that Malden’s proximity to Boston, with its jobs and great schools, made it a good choice for any growing Jewish family.

We are also grateful to Rabbi & Rebbitzen Rabinowitz, the Bitran Family, the Goldberg Family, and the Vogel Family for hosting Torah Tours and being such great company during their stay..

The shiurim included topics on  “A Jew’s Role in This World,” “Birchat HaTorah,” and “Pulling An All Nighter….Is It Worth It?,” to mention a few.  Rabbi Yitzchak Zev Rabinowitz, our community’s rabbi, also gave shiurim regarding “Does Everyone Receive a Portion in Olam Haba-The World to Come?,” “Shavuos- a Time for Change,” and “ What Shavuos Did (or Didn’t Do) for Eating Dairy,” along with many others.

We were sad to see them leave and are looking forward to sharing other Chagim and Smichot with them again soon!